This kerchief is really one of my favorite accessories. There are so many pretty colors that it's easy to coordinate with outfits, but I usually like to wear it with casual, summer-y outfits. I need to accessorize more (I don't invest enough in jewelry, etc.), but when I do, I go for things I love (which is one of the reasons I don't invest more in it--I love what I already have). Find what you love! Maybe you like fun colors, maybe you love dangly earrings, maybe you only like gold. Find what you like and work it.